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My First Memory. White eyelet panties and rattlesnakes.

My First Memory. White eyelet panties and rattlesnakes.

We lived at the base of the One-Mile Hill, where rattlesnakes slid down into the shade of our carport. My earliest memory is standing in ruffled white panties, held back by the arm and taught the ritual: open slowly, look below the threshold, then the stoop, then the concrete. The prairie taught me to respect the dangers I could see. It took years to learn how to survive the ones I couldn’t.

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When Truth Costs You Relationships

When Truth Costs You Relationships

Behind closed doors, I knew another man entirely: a man who struck me, who betrayed me, who left me in fear. Over time, those shadows hollowed me out from the inside until I no longer recognized myself. And yet, even in that hollowing, I pray I have heard God rightly in telling the truth of what I lived.

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